When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Lemonade, great! But sometimes I wonder why so many lemons?
A few months ago I went through an unexpected relationship breakup. Despite the fact that everyone tells you that time heals all wounds, and deep down you know this to be true, it renders little consolation when you feel like your heart is in a thousand pieces.
I was struggling with the fact that there were so many questions left unanswered, wondering had I ‘said this’ or ‘done that’ would the outcome have been different, and praying that I would not be permanently scarred with distrust. It was as if I was grieving for the person I thought he was, and the relationship I thought we had, but inevitably didn’t.
In my efforts to glue all those pieces back together and finally slam close that chapter of my life, here’s to;
- accepting that you cannot change the actions of others, only your own
- staying true to who you are, and
- believing that you are deserving of someone/something wonderful
Welcome to all new life adventures, friendships, love, and…hopefully a little less lemonade!
